i totally realize why femail love shopping.......because i found i have been doing this.....

buying itself is a kind of action with instinctive joy....

some will get back reality when they see the bill. some dont need because the joy of buying is the real life....free from the money!!!

it looks like a discussion about Epicureanism. :P

I think buying satisfies human's desire of greed in a civilized way except robbing or thirving. Sometime we just wanna buy regardless of what the stuffs used for. greed is human's animal natu...re. That's real truth. If a person totally accept this and lives following the joy comes from this nature,(and she/he has a lot of money), I believe she owns real happiness. But even he is conscious of nothing and just lives following the nature of greed to buy to delight himself as any other animal, I believe he also owns real happiness...

However.....

The most case is not like that, and i agree with you...Human are more than animals after all. It's not possible to fill objects into soul. After the temporary illusion from merchandise disappears, the terrible emptiness in mind plunges them into fear and they have to go buying again. And that's a little pathatic. Like drug.

But if someone convinces himself that it's truely good and happy to keep this cycles. Even I disagree with this way can get (my) real happiness, i still have to say ok it's real joy for him. Even I suspect it. In terms of keeping buying to ...compensate, to identify....to get away from the emptiness...it's really tough work....

what i realized is just about nature of greed. i think it more or less remains inside our consumption behavior. so, I should correct my words that i just realize "part" not total of why females love shopping.....
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For me, i still look consumption on outside stand, i am not enthusiastic at shopping, but sometimes i indeed have a feeling i will get the knowledge after i buy it......:D

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